Our 250th episode!!! Alexis Tae is still a fresh face in the industry but she’s already making a name for herself! Alexis and Holly chat about her AVN Award-winning VR scene, why her mom wasn’t shocked she started doing p*rn, and how she got the nickname “SpongeBob” during her first day on set. Plus - Alexis walks us through her an*l prep routine, which includes one thing most porn stars are WAY too afraid to do!
SHOW NOTES:
1:22 introduction
2:30 Alexis’ Star Wars VR scene
5:10 anal prep routine
12:40 how she got into the industry
13:49 her first scene
18:50 porn in Florida vs LA
204 favorite scenes
25:38 AVN awards
280 how porn has changed her life
322 Parent’s reaction to her job
34:40 dating in the industry
45:51 taking care of her mental health
52:40 social shoutouts
Dr David Ley is a clinical psychologist and author with a speciality in sex therapy. He's written three books: "Insatiable Wives", "The Myth of Sex Addiction" and "Ethical Porn for Dicks". In this episode, Dr Ley and Holly discuss why he doesn't believe in porn (or sex) addiction, and why porn is healthy and men shouldn't be shamed for watching it. Also: is it actually women who are the architects of slut-shaming, and why do women have rape fantasies?
00:39 How he became a sex therapist and how he's trained other therapists.
03:37 His first two books: Insatiable Wives & The Myth of Sex Addiction.
11:15 Shame about sex is more damaging than sex itself.
140 People who watch more porn are more open minded.
14:57 Porn doesn't shape society, it reflects it.
18:29 We treat sex differently than other human behaviors.
22:50 Is sex addiction real?
29:30 His third book, Ethical Porn for Dicks.
37:30 Women search for rough sex porn more than men.
44:34 Women often stigmatize the sexuality of other women.
52:42 Can porn be beneficial?
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